Several years ago, Lisa, our writing group’s founder, tried to quit. She feared the realities of her treatment for stomach cancer (belching, gas, occasional gagging, and a backpack of liquid food that connected to a port in her stomach) were off-putting. She was also discouraged, because “she wasn’t contributing anything,” meaning that she didn’t have any writing to share with the group.
The other five members of the group listened, but as she talked, it was clear that thinking about writing gave her a break from thinking about her health, and she still enjoyed our company. One member suggested that we could all chime in with our own bodily noises if it would make Lisa feel more comfortable. We swiped away tears and laughed ourselves silly at that suggestion. Lisa agreed to stay involved in the group.
We support each other as writers.
That moment exemplifies the basic philosophy of our creative nonfiction writers’ group and why we’ve been together for 13 years: we meet to support each other as writers. Sometimes that goes beyond reacting to each other’s writing.
Besides giving each other feedback about writing projects, we also provide moral and tactical support:
- Celebrating our publishing victories and sympathizing when someone’s work is rejected.
- Sharing our grant proposals and writing award applications, even when we’re competing for the same grants and awards.
- Offering support when a member’s personal life is trying.
- Organizing our own writers’ retreats.
- Launching a campaign to get Lisa published when she didn’t have the energy for submissions.
- Attending each other’s public readings.
- Organizing several extra-long review sessions to provide feedback on book manuscripts.
- Recommending marketing and promotional ideas, most recently for Elizabeth’s House of Fire book launch.
Most of all, we believe in each other.